The journey to becoming a mental health counselor is a personal journey for many. It is often birthed from a basic perspective that humans have an incredible capacity for connection, and a desire to share with people during some of their darkest moments not as an authority, but as a guide. For many individuals, pursuing a program on a campus is simply not an option. Life imposes its own demands with jobs, families, and communities, and we can find ourselves stuck believing that the option of pursuing one's dream is out of reach.
However, the educational landscape has transitioned and now offers a credible and robust alternative - the online master's degree in mental health counseling. Let me be clear: an online counseling degree is not a shortcut. Moreover, it is not a watered-down version of a degree you would earn on site. It is a different modality of learning that requires a distinct blend of discipline, self-awareness, and comfort with technology. The substance of the education - theories of personality, cognitive behavioral therapy techniques, ethical dilemmas, and the intensity of practicum and internship requirements are non-negotiable. Only the delivery changes, and for the right person, the delivery can be the very key that unlocks the door to a deeply meaningful career.
A respectable online Master's in Mental Health Counseling—or Clinical Mental Health Counseling program (CMHC)—is developed to be an intense journey into the art and science of therapeutic practice. In other words—and breaking things down to basics—it is the methodical construction of a toolbox, one piece at a time, met over the course of two to three years.
The systematic pieces of your toolbox will always begin with theory. Theory will educate you on specific examples, everything from major schools of thought that led to an understanding of the human psyche—think Freudian psychoanalytic couch, to humanistic therapy's here-and-now, grounded, pragmatic relevance, to the structured, applied methodology of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and/or dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT). You will learn about family systems theory, which sees us as parts of a larger, emotional, connected unit, and what I call postmodern views that emphasize narrative therapy—an approach encouraging clients to see themselves as the author of their lives, distinct and separate from their problems.
The aim is not to make you a successful devotee of any particular school or approach, but to create a full map of multiple intersecting therapeutic perspectives. You will learn to think like a counselor, conceptualize cases, understand "why" you would use certain techniques, browse the cases along the therapeutic spectrum, etc.
Complemented and consolidated by practice and supervisory feedback, the theory will be grounded in the essential study of psychopathology, mental disorders. Using the DSM-5, the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, as the foundation of our curriculum, you will equip yourself with the ability to evaluate oneself, understand diagnostic criteria, and, more critically, prepare yourself to see the person behind the diagnosis.
This curriculum ultimately will allow you to distinguish, for example, between a person with depression and one with a person with bipolar disorder or to see the difference between a trauma-related response and anxiety disorder. It's a complex, multifaceted area of inquiry that serves as the basis for your treatment planning and intervention development.
Perhaps the most essential component of any counseling program is practice, or your ability to conceptualize your knowledge into clinical skills. This brings us to the "online" portion of the course, which is perhaps the most high-touch part of the course. Through synchronous (live) video sessions, you will have opportunities to engage in role plays with your professors and your peers. You may be asked to demonstrate a set of active listening skills, practice a motivational interviewing skill, or manage a mock-crisis.
These sessions are almost always recorded (with participant permission) so that you and your associate professor can review your performance in regards to body language, your phrasing of words, and your emotional presence. This can feel very vulnerable - even behind a screen, it is an unusual place to learn - but this is where your textbook knowledge starts to integrate clinically.
As a whole, ethics will be infused throughout all of this experience. You will take courses exclusively on ethical and legal aspects of the practice of counseling. You will think about scenarios around confidentiality, dual relationships, informed consent, and mandated reporting. As well, you will also learn state-specific laws for ethical practice, important because you will be licensed through the state. This ethical roadmap protects both you and your future clients and guarantees that your practice is safe, secure, and efficacious.
No discussion of an online counseling degree is complete without an honest, nuanced discussion of the clinical fieldwork aspect. This is where students are often surprised: you cannot become a counselor by just staring at a screen. Your degree program is a preparation for your supervised clinical experience.
Generally, toward the latter half of your program you will conduct a practicum and internship where you accumulate a certain number of direct contact hours with clients (most states require approximately 700 hours up to 1,000 hours). Your degree program will employ a field placement coordinator to facilitate the experiential part of your learning, but it will be up to you to locate a suitable site within your community. Think of a community mental health agency, a school, an addiction treatment facility, a hospital, or a private practice.
You will have a caseload of clients, and you will write progress notes, create treatment plans, and attend staff meetings with the licensed professionals employed at your site. This is where theory meets practice. It is challenging, emotional work, and there is no substitute. Your online courses will happen in tandem with the experience you gain. The online course will provide a forum in which to discuss your cases, reach out to instructors for guidance and direction, and incorporate what you are learning.
When you graduate you'll have your master's degree; however, you won't be fully licensed as an independent practitioner. The next step is to complete supervised clinical work post-graduation. You'll need to apply for registration as an associate/intern in your state and complete several thousand additional supervised hours of experience (traditionally for 2-3 years) before being able to sit for the National Counselor Examination (NCE) or state-specific test.
After successfully passing the exam, you'll be eligible to earn your license for a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC), or a similar title. Essentially, it's a long path that is meant to ensure competency and help protect the public.
There are increasing numbers of universities offering online counseling degrees, so how do you separate the good from the bad? The most important single thing is the existence of accreditation. You need to search for programs that have accreditation from the Council for Accreditation of Counseling and Related Educational Programs (CACREP) or for a few degrees, the Masters in Psychology and Counseling Accreditation Council (MPCAC).
You're looking for accreditation, period. CACREP is the gold standard. It means the program has been fully vetted for curriculum, faculty credentials, and support services, along with meeting full standards on the national level. Increasingly, states require a CACREP degree for licensure, and yes, it. Furthermore, if your program is accredited by CACREP, it can amplify your transition to becoming a National Certified Counselor (NCC). CACREP accreditation is an assurance of quality and generally positive reception by the profession.
Beyond accreditation, think carefully about the delivery method of the program - will you be completing mostly asynchronous courses that allow you to work when you can, or is it a mostly synchronous model which requires your live presence? A synchronous model often leads to a more meaningful, connected learning process as it helps cultivate a co-learning space similar to the traditional classroom.
Next, pay careful attention when reviewing faculty - who are the faculty? Are they active clinicians? Learning from clinician faculty members provides a level of authenticity and real-world relevance to the course content that should not be overlooked.
The quality of your program will be demonstrated by how they support students to find their own field placement for field experience. Quality programs often have staff dedicated to placing students, and programs will have a process to help you navigate this process. You will want to inquire if students have inquired, and if they have any resources available to help with placements.
Lastly, think about what technology platform is used for your program. You will want the technology platform to be comprehensive and easily navigated (if it is hard to navigate the technology you will likely have other challenges). Want elements to be.
The career path you are considering requires a specific collection of personal characteristics to succeed. The most successful online counseling students are thoroughly self-motivated, and disciplined. There is not the structure of a physical classroom and designated class times, so you will be creating your own schedule and sticking to it. This is a graduate program, so the workload is substantial. Academic journal articles will be read, academic papers will be written, there will be discussion forums and preparation for participation in live synchronous sessions.
You must be comfortable working in technology, which may naturally lead to being a clear and proactive communicator, and perhaps most importantly, willing to share. You will not be able to rely on non-verbal cues the same way you would in working face-to-face. If you are finding a concept difficult, are feeling some isolation, or are having a technical issue, you must be willing to say something, send the email, or ask for help. Your professors, instructors, and advisors are there to support you, but they can't read your mind.
In fact, one of the most underrated aspects if it can even be considered an aspect, is the capacity of being introspective. This is a professional field that requires a high degree of self-awareness. Your biases, triggers, and personal histories will all come to live in the work you ultimately do with clients. A good program will ask you to look inward to "know your stuff" and to make sure that it doesn't interfere with your work with the person or people sitting across from you. Much of this is difficult work and takes personal, intellectual, and emotional energy, but it will be time and energy well spent as they are the course for being an effective, efficacious, ethical therapist.
Now let's be realistic for a moment, the cost of the master's degree is a considerable financial investment. We see online program tuition running the full range of cost under $30,000 to costing higher than $70,000, for the full degree. You should always remember, it is worth taking your due diligence to look for financial aide, scholarships, and even possible employer reimbursement for tuition. Think of the degree as an investment, and not only a cost.
It likely will not be a career making you wealthy, but it can be a career that is personally rewarding and fairly stable in demand in the labor market. The professional outlook for mental health counselors is positive, represented by the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics projecting much faster than average growth for the next several years. As society continues to at least be aware and de-stigmatizing mental health issues and is learning more about the mind-body connection, mental health counselors will always be in demand.
Additionally, the range of settings you will be working in as a licensed counselor can be bright. Again, you could be working at a community agency providing mental health care to folks who are getting mental health needs addressed who wouldn't otherwise have affordable or convenient access to mental health care; in a school working with children and adolescents as they learn to navigate their social and emotional difficulties; or as a counselor in a psychiatric unit of a hospital; or serving veterans in a veteran's affairs clinic; or working as a part of a corporation with their employee assistance program; or even greater and bigger picture, working almost entirely in private practice with the option to grow your client list, set your own schedule, and pick and choose who you work with.
The work takes an emotional toll. You will see extreme pain, trauma, and struggle. You will have to establish strong limits and an effective self-care plan to avoid burnout and compassion fatigue. But the rewards are indeed extreme. There are few things more significant than walking alongside a fellow human, helping them step into their power, heal their wounds, and reclaim their story. You get to embody hope in moments of despair and a reflection of someone's worth when they aren't able to see it anymore.
What no one tells you in the nice-colored brochures is that as an online counseling student your kitchen table will become your classroom, your bedroom might become your library, and you may find yourself having conversations about attachment theory in your pajamas at 6 in the morning before your children wake up. Not a complaint - just the texture of the experience and understanding that ahead of time can set your mind and body at ease in preparation.
Most programs structure classes to be in eight-week or fifteen-week terms. The classes will often be scheduled similar to a semester, but frequently at a higher speed. You may find yourself taking two classes at one time in an eight-week format. This structure crams everything into an abbreviated, compressed time-frame. One week you are learning Bowenian family systems theory and concurrently writing a case conceptualization for your psychopathology class.
The reading load is considerable. We are speaking in the neighborhood of 100-200 pages each week, for one class, and, no, this wouldn't be a light-hearted fiction like Green Eggs and Ham or The Giving Tree. These are complex academic texts that will often include research studies with statistical analysis, then apply theoretical frameworks requiring you to slow down to read, write notes, and inspector, re-read sections for comprehension.
Discussion boards will be your participation in the classroom. Most programs will ask for participation with weekly posts to a discussion board to respond to prompts and other posts from classmates. The goal is not to summarize what you read, but to think, analyze, apply to concepts to hypothetical cases, and push back respectfully on the ideas shared by others.
The boards can be surprisingly meaningful. You will make real connections with cohort members from states across the country or even other countries, that you have never met, but understand, share in your experience.
Oftentimes, there will be live class sessions. Almost all programs do these at night or on weekends to accommodate working students. You will log in to a video platform like Zoom, which is most programs tend to use now, but some will require using their own proprietary system, and then in an instant, you are face-to-face with fifteen other students and a professor or instructor.
The live sessions are lectures – except seldom, are they just lectures. You will usually, especially in counseling programs, there will be interactive components where you will break into groups for a short amount of time to practice techniques, or discuss a case study, or practice working through an ethical decision-making process. The first time you role-play a counseling session in front of your classmates while your professor or instructor watches, even if they are a great professor or instructor, it is not going to feel fun and will probably make your hands shake, you might forget what you were going to say, or even just get stuck, it will be worth it in retrospect to replay those formative experiences. Every single person in that virtual space has been in the same boat.
Your educational journey now includes technology not just as a tool, but as a character. You'll learn to navigate learning management systems, the etiquette for video conferencing (yes, when you think you are muted, everyone can still see you), and the need to upload assignments in the correct format (yes, also the panicked feeling that it could be ten minutes until the deadline).
You will also experience the unique anxiety of having your screen freeze during a presentation or class discussion. Accept that frustration, such as a sudden loss of internet connectivity when your instructor is deep into a lecture, the continued inability to upload the assignment at 11:50 pm when the deadline is at midnight, or the sudden malfunction of your microphone as it is your turn to speak, will occur often. You will be comfortable with a written minutes buffer and will likely also ensure you develop backup plans.
The next set of realities we will address have some commonality with the first but are often not mentioned when admissions counselors share their experience. First, the isolation can be real. Even though your students can come together via video calls and discussion boards, there is still something lost when you do not have physical peers to grab coffee with post-class, no reason to engage in (or learn) from study groups that meet at the library, or no informal discussions in the hallways from which you can learn from.
You are going to have to be intentional about developing community. Many successful online students develop their own small groups, scheduling regular video meet-ups without the expectations from the course to meet. These informal relationships often become the lifeline one needs during those weeks, or months, where things began to feel overwhelming.
Second, your family-friends won't understand what you're doing unless you're having to write something down for them. Just because you're home, doesn't mean you're accessible. Your partner may ask if you can run an errand during your scheduled study time. Your children may not understand why you're in the house and can't play with them. Your supervisor may assume you can cover extra shifts, on the basis that you are doing just "online school."
Setting boundaries is a key skill you will need. You must be clear about your availability, and if you can, create physical boundaries (even if it is a piece of paper taped to your door that says "In Class"). You may sometimes have to be firm in ways that feel uncomfortable.
Third, imposter syndrome hits differently in an online program. It's easy to convince yourself that you are the only one who doesn't understand attachment theory, or can't remember the difference between a mental status exam and a clinical interview, because you're not seeing other students day after day struggling with the same concepts--this is not the case. Everyone feels this way at one time or another. The difference is in an online program, you will need to be more proactive in asking for help than simply waiting for the opportunity to talk to the professor after class.
Fourth, the practicum and internship search can be disheartening. You will send out emails to potential placements and hear nothing in return. Some preliminary contacts will feel promising, then end up telling you they prefer students from local brick-and-mortar programs, which you will find to be the case sometimes no matter where you live. Some supervisors are skeptical of online education, even when it is from a CACREP accredited site.
This is not the case with every site; many places are welcoming and aware of the equivalence of in-person and online programs, but it is important to be prepared to be rejected at some places and move on. It is important to start your search early, be professional in every communication, and not take it personally when sites say no.
Let's dive into the realities of what these classes entail, because while "Theories of Counseling" may seem straightforward, you will find out otherwise once you find your way into class. The theories class will likely span the first year of program; at times it will be two classes in sequence or 'back to back.'
Initially, students will engage with history—those early psychoanalysts who sat behind the couch and interpreted dreams. Students will read excerpts from Freud himself (which can be heavy in culture and dense), but do provide the foundational understanding of the historical context surrounding everything thereafter.
The class will provide history and applications, and likely move into the humanistic approaches: Carl Rogers and person-centered therapy, where the therapeutic relationship itself becomes the healing agent. In this part, students learn about unconditional positive regard and congruence, and practice reflective listening until it feels both organic and completely out of place.
The cognitive-behavioral section introduces students to structured, present-focused intervention work, identifying and challenging distorted thoughts and beliefs. In this part because someone out there has identified cognitive distortions—catastrophizing, all-or-nothing thinking, personalization—and because you'll likely hear your own thoughts identified, feelings may evoke, and you'll likely find yourself having at least one moment of: "wow, I've been doing this for years." The course not only teaches you how to identify this in your clients, but it also implicitly asks you to be mindful of that in yourself, too.
When you get to family systems theory, it becomes very clear that you're in a very different conceptual train of thought: you may not be thinking about individual psychology, but you're thinking about patterns of behavior, roles of who is present, triangulation, and multigenerational transmission. Aspects of Bowen's theory related to differentiation and emotional cutoff may send your brain into overdrive initially. You'll create genograms; those family maps that include symbols to show relationships and patterns of behavior. You will analyze your own family system, which can be illuminating and sometimes a little awkward.
Most of your psychopathology course will be focused on your learning of the DSM-5. You'll learn the diagnostic criteria for major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, borderline personality disorder, schizophrenia and perhaps at least a dozen other diagnoses. Messy but good programs teach you an important truth, however: a diagnostic category is a tool, but not an identity. You are taught to hold the diagnostic framework lightly, recognizing they are simply human constructions that inform treatment but do not entirely capture the essence of the people involved.
You'll also review materials about differential diagnosis, which is the work of distinguishing between similar presenting conditions. You'll do case vignettes, which will have you practicing the clinical reasoning that will become natural for you in your later work.
The research and program evaluation course is probably the one most students dread. If you are coming back to academic work after a number of years, and have not done any academic writing since undergrad, or you break out in a sweat thinking of statistics, you may feel like you have started to climb a mountain.
In this class, you will learn quantitative and qualitative research methodologies, review journal articles, and design a basic research study. Many programs require that you write a thesis, or capstone project, in which case you will need to identify a research question and conduct a literature review on that topic, and then if you are doing original research, you will conduct a study (or if you are developing a program proposal, then write that). This work may seem like busy work, but it is intended to prepare you to be a consumer of research so that you are aware of evidence-based practices in the field, and you can think critically about the claims that researchers make in our field.
The skills courses are where the practical and personal aspects come together. In your basic counseling skills course, you'll learn the microskills: how to ask open questions, how to paraphrase, how to reflect feelings, how to summarize. These may seem simple skills, but it is very challenging to implement these skills seamlessly while paying attention to the client's non-verbal behavior, managing your own anxiety, and maintaining the direction of the session.
You will also practice by recording yourself, and then observing that recording - this can be a unique form of torture at the beginning. You will be attuned to every "um" and "like," every time you interrupted someone, or when you asked a closed question instead of an open question. While you will improve over time, it takes practice and watching yourself make mistakes isn't the easiest thing to sit with.
One of the processes in online programs that does not get enough attention is the development of professional identity. Taking skills and theories and becoming a counselor involves basic shifting of how you see yourself and how you are in the world. This identity transformation usually begins with your first client contact during the practicum.
At some point you are no longer a student discussing hypothetical cases of practice, but you are across from a real human being, who is trusting and initiating you to discuss their struggles. And, that could feel like a lot of responsibility. You will likely have some moments in which you think, "What am I doing here? I have no clue how to help this person." This thinking is normal and, in fact, healthy. This thinking allows you to demonstrate to yourself that you are taking the work seriously and taking into consideration the complications that are involved in human suffering.
Your clinical supervisor will become a vital piece to this process. An effective supervisor does not just tell you what to do: they work with you to develop your own clinical intuition and style. They will be watching recordings of your sessions (most programs require that you to record sessions), and they will provide feedback that is supportive and challenging. They may point out patterns you are missing, ask you questions about your conceptualization of a case, or help you notice countertransference - those times when your own emotional reactions to a client might inform you of something happening in the therapeutic relationship.
You will also begin to find your theoretical home. You have learned all of the significant theories during your coursework and one day you will have to come together all of the theories into a cohesive framework that accommodates who you are as a person. Some students like the concrete approach to treatment of cognitive-behavioral therapy. Others prefer the relational aspects of psychodynamic work. Some may prefer working from a family therapy perspective using systems thinking. Others might find narrative reframing from a postmodern perspective a good fit.
There is no right approach, and most likely your approach will shift and change throughout your career. The important piece is to have a conceptual framework that makes sense and that you can have theoretical thinking guide your interventions in an organized and explainable manner.
Your professional identity also means learning where you fit in the larger mental health landscape. As a masters level counselor, you are different than a psychologist (who are doctorate level) a social worker (who comes from a different training tradition), or psychiatrist (a medical doctor prior to training in mental illness). Each of those professionals offers some strengths, and part of your training is learning when to get other professionals involved (i.e., when someone needs psych/medication management, when a child would benefit from taking a psycho-educational testing), etc.
While the courses you took to earn your masters-level degree gave you generalist training, certainly some students begin to formalize interlocations with populations or treatment modalities. That might mean developing your skill as a generalist work, or specialized experience with a specific group (often called a "niche" area) of specialization. The mental health field is expansive and there are opportunities to develop a niche, based on your interest and community need.
Some students pursue trauma work. That might also include developing certification training opportunities for working with trauma survivors (for example, being EMDR certified practitioner, and EMDR is a systematic approach to barging through traumatic memories - recognizing how cognitive work may contribute to distress). It would be even longer and difficult discussion to note that you are going to engage trauma survivors in work that is not a part of your many months of a master's program, and this work (professional capacity) is also emotional to do.
At times, you will share and hear stories of violence, abuse, or tragic end-of-life conditions. There is no denying that for many counselors, walking someone from their past, when their past controlled them to today, is one of the most meaningful things one can do.
Others may specialize with working with a specific age group. Child and adolescent counseling, for example, requires the ability to work differently than adults—it requires procedures that one is comfortable using, clinical work that consideration of the child is, developmental stages and parental involvement (and dilemmas maintaining the child's confidentiality). Geriatric counseling, on the other end of the spectrum, involves understanding the unique challenges of aging, loss, cognitive decline, and end-of-life issues.
Addiction counseling is its own subspecialty. You'll need to understand the neurobiology of addiction, the stages of change model, motivational interviewing techniques, and the various pathways to recovery. Many counselors who work in addiction have personal experience with recovery, though this isn't a requirement. The field needs people who can sit with the chaos and relapses that characterize addiction without judgment, holding hope when the client can't hold it themselves.
Couples and family counseling requires additional training beyond your master's program in most cases. You'll need to think systemically, manage the emotional intensity of having multiple people in the room with conflicting perspectives, and navigate complex dynamics without taking sides. Some counselors have special certification in approaches focused on aspects such as Gottman Method Couples Therapy or Emotionally Focused Therapy.
In recent years, there has been an increased demand for counseling professionals with special interests in areas such as career development, wellness coaching, mental health for college students, crisis intervention, or working with unique communities such as veterans, immigrants, or LGBTQ+ persons. The field has expanded to accommodate a variety of specializations, and you can make your own place there, based on your interests and needs in your population or area.
Every program you have encountered will promote the importance of self-care. There is likely a dedicated section on burnout prevention and compassion fatigue as its own module. You might do a reading, have a conversation about it in class, or write a paper about your personal self-care in your self-care plan and then promptly forget all about it because of the reading you need to do, the time to find a practicum site, and the time managing your first "real" caseload.
The truth is that self-care in your profession is necessary, not optional. It is not an indulgence or something you do when you 'have time.' It is the building blocks you need to make the work sustainable; otherwise you will burn out. Not possibly burn out; you will burn out.
The process of sitting with human suffering changes you. When you create and hold space for someone's trauma, some of that weight develops change within you. When a client shares with you their suicidal ideation, and you have the responsibility of assessing their safety, that weight does not disappear the moment they walk out of your office. Working with families in crisis, couples who are separating, self-harming adolescents, or veterans with PTSD means you take on some of their pain. This is known as vicarious trauma or secondary traumatic stress, and it is a legitimate occupational hazard.
Physical Dimension: Self-care has many dimensions, and the physical one is the most basic element: sleep, nutrition, and movement. When we are stressed and overwhelmed, this is the first element that is affected, and it quickly exacerbates a vicious cycle. Most likely, your work will involve many days of sitting—in front of a computer for classes, sitting at a desk to write notes, and sitting in a chair with clients. It's extraordinarily important to get intentional movement, not because your body needs to be punished but to release that tension the body holds.
Emotional Dimension: The emotional dimension includes having some of your own support. Maybe that means psychotherapy for yourself (many counselors engage in their own therapy, and many programs mandate therapy), trusted friends or family who listen without trying to fix everything, or peer supervision groups where you can talk through challenging cases with colleagues who understand. It is important to have outlets where you are not the helper, where you are the one who is struggling and needs assistance.
Professional Dimension: The professional dimension may include things like regular supervision after licensure, attending conferences/workshops to stay educated and inspired, or being involved in professional organizations that connect you with a strong community of counselors. These are not only opportunities for networking but are reminders that you are a part of a bigger picture than your individual practice.
Spiritual Dimension: The spiritual aspect (broadly interpreted) may mean religious or contemplative practices, time in nature, creativity, or anything that brings you to some way of meaning beyond doing the daily work. This work asks questions that touch on human nature, suffering, resilience, and hope. Having your process to think through the big questions holds you accountable.
It is a completely legitimate, rigorous, and deeply rewarding endeavor for the right person to earn a degree in mental health counseling online in the U.S. University requires that you have a very clear-eyed view of the commitment, not just to the coursework, but also the huge clinical training, and layered learning and reflection, which will continue all your life. This is a path for those who are committed, organized, and dedicated to adding value to the lives of others.
If you have the self-discipline to manage your own time, the communication skills to connect with someone in a digital format, and the courage to do the inner work required, then this online postgraduate education can provide a well-deserved level of flexibility without the compromise of your education. This is the 21st century pathway of an ancient art—the art of listening, the art of understanding, and the art of helping another human being connect with themselves again.
It is a long road. From the day that you start your coursework, to the day you earn your independent license is likely to be between five and seven years. There will be times (or even years) of self-doubt, times of sheer exhaustion, and times you wonder whether you will actually do this. But there will also be times of knowing—when something that you read in a theorist's work clicks in your mind, you see a client reach a moment of hope in treatment, and realize that you have developed skills in yourself that you did not have a year ago.
This is work that is worth doing. In a world that feels perpetually shattered and broken, you are opting to be someone who creates space for real human connection. You are learning to stay present with suffering without immediately problem-solving it, you are learning to ask questions that will help a person to discover their own meaning in it, and you are learning to reflect back someone's own strength when they have forgotten that they have any. These are rare and sacred skills.
If you are reading this and feeling both excited and scared, that feels like a good sign. It is probably because you are taking this seriously. It means that you understand that you are not just trying to get a credential; you are pursuing a calling. The online mode of your degree is simply the vehicle for you to become a witness to whomever you hold the space for in their healing journey.
Is it possible to become a mental health counselor through online education? Yes, you can! The question is not around whether you want to pursue online education, but whether you are ready for what this work entails and whether the reward is worth the rarity of the challenge to hold for someone. Only you can answer that question.